If you are struggling and need help, don’t wait, and don’t suffer alone: Asking for help is a sign of strength.  
The Trevor Project (serving youth to age 24): call (866) 488-7386 or http://www.thetrevorproject.org/pages/get-help-now
The GLBT National Youth Talkline (youth serving youth through age 25): (800) 246-7743
The National Runaway Switchboard: (800) RUNAWAY (786-2929)
National Runaway Safeline https://www.1800runaway.org/ 
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: (800) 273-8255 (online chat available) http://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/talk-to-someone-now/
Crisis Text Line: Text START to 741-741
The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline: (888) 843-4564 
Trans Lifeline  http://www.translifeline.org/
Local: The LGBT Center can help you find a therapist.   (757) 200-9198 
LGBT affirming spiritual leaders in Hampton Roads  http://www.pofev.org/index.php/clergy-ready-marry-couples/hampton-roads-clerg/  
Transgender Assistance Program of Virginia (homeless)  http://www.tapvirginia.org/
PFLAGers also know how to fight for ourselves, for our families, and for a bright future for LGBTQ youth. We have been on the frontlines, making allies out of adversaries, for over 40 years.   https://www.pflag.org/  
Lambda Legal  http://www.lambdalegal.org/  
ACLU of Virginia  https://acluva.org/
TLDEF Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund  http://tldef.org/
Equality Virginia  http://www.equalityvirginia.org/take-action/  
National Center for Transgender Equality  http://www.transequality.org/know-your-rights